A very important aspect to building your dreams come true
involves staying focused on your goal, believing, with your
whole heart, it is a reality.

Dreams and goals stand less of a chance of coming to
fruition if theyve been crushed, or stomped on in any way.
This is common understanding.

When we have a desire, we are told to hold fast to the dream,
do not waver, dont dilute. Wavering does not give the
Universe a chance to deliver. Diluting your dream, asking
for less than you originally intended, sends a conflicting
message to the Universe also.

We get so excited about our visions, we eagerly tell someone
else, maybe a family member, friend or neighbor - even a
significant other, and we fail to remember, they arent always on the
identical wavelength as us. They push our How are you going to
do that? buttons.

Did you know successful, high achievers do not consider
the How? They dont ponder How am I going to
achieve this?. They simply focus on the What, and allow
the Universe to deliver the How.

If you get a reaction from someone after telling them about
your dream of, "No way", or "Hmmm" or "Yeah, right, Ill
believe it when I see it", or even a non-committal grunt,
quickly tell yourself "cancel, cancel" and redirect your
thoughts back to the positive vibe of your achievement. Do
not lose that dreamy, feel-good sensation. Continue to feel
it with all your heart. Its that feeling, that excitement
you knowledge when you visualize the desire, that makes it
all happen.

People who provide you with such responses are not able to
think of you and what you absolutely need. Their reply comes directly
from their own experiences and should definitely not be
taken seriously. I know, you can keep wishing others would
respond to your excitement with enthusiasm and support, but
the fact of the matter is, YOU are the only one who really
needs to be enthusiastic about your venture because YOU are
the only person who will contruct it a reality.

Its too bad for these other folks, however, the best thing
you could do with such responses (after cancelling any
negative effects fired your way) is to return love to them.
They obviously positive need it when they are unable to feel joy for
you and your excitement.

Strive to rise above it, do not take their comments
personally, for they are simply coming from the results of
their past history. It really has very little to do with
you and Now.

The flip side of these situations is to be aware of when we
could be squashing someone elses dreams. Have you caught
yourself quote no way to someone elses dreams? Or being
less than enthusiastic when someone shares a bright idea?
Sometimes we inadvertently squash our kids dreams in an
effort to protect them from being hurt. The logic behind
this is to disappoint them before someone else does. Who
are we to say where our kids dreams lay? It is a process
they are undergoing. It is how they determine FOR
THEMSELVES who they are, what they goal out of life.

Say your child shows a strong interest in skateboarding. He
- and I mean no gender bias, its just relative to my life
and will contruct this read better - is passionate about it.
Does it 24/7. Eats, sleeps, breathes it. Only ever desire
to skate like the wind. Because of your own conditioning,
this might not be your dream for your child. You might believe
he can do so much more with his life. I do not feel this way
about skateboarding, by the way, but some adults do. Back
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